Judith received her “Leaving Certificate” at the end of 5th Form (year 11) in 1951 from Camperdown High School in country Victoria, Australia.[i]
After graduating, Judith got a job at one of the five banks in town. She swapped her school uniform for a bank uniform and began to ride her bicycle to work rather than school.
Her evenings and weekends were a whirlwind of social activity. She attended local dances, including two debutant balls with her high school sweetheart, Patrick Mitchell. The first debutantes’ ball was the “High School Ex-Students Ball”, in August 1951, where Judith was one of sixteen debutantes.[ii] Propriety dictated that the girls were to be modest and have their shoulders covered, Judith, wondering where she would ever wear such a dress again, chose a shoestring strap gown that was more versatile The gown was described in the papers as having a “Fitted bodice of broderie anglaise, with appliqued skirt, and appliqued shoulder cape of matching tulle”. The translucent cape enabled her to meet the requirement of covering her shoulders, even if it was a bit daring.
Photographer Frank Rhodes, Group photo of attendees at the Camperdown High School Ex-Students’ Association Debutante Ball Dress, Monday 9 August 1951, Theatre Royal, Camperdown, Victoria, Australia. (Judith is first on the right in the second row, her half-sister is the young girl in the front [T377]
Then came
the Cobden Ball in September 1951, where she became the second runner up in the “Western
district Belle of Debutantes”, from a field of 36 Debutants.[iii]
She also played tennis at the St Andrew’s Church local Tennis club and rode
horses as often as time would allow.
In a small
country town, everyone knew your business. Not only were the dances reported in
the newspapers but also her holidays:
“Miss Judith Todman, of the National Bank
staff, Camperdown, is at present on annual leave.”[iv]
Then
Judith’s stepfather, Stuart (Pop), passed away suddenly with no warning on 13
July 1952, just like her father had done when she was three. Pop was really the
only father that she could remember and now he was gone. Once again everything
changed as her brother was recalled from University, to which he would never
return, to help his mother manage the farm.
After two years working at the bank, Judith wanted to see the wider world and so decided, almost a year after Pop’s passing, that nursing was the escape she was looking for. Judith moved to Melbourne in the middle of 1953 and began her nurse training, while living at the “Melbourne School of Nursing Student’s Hostel”, with other country and interstate nurse trainees.[v]
Photographer unknown, Graduating from Nurses School, 1956, Melbourne, Victoria,
Australia [T348] From left: Wendy Dolling, June Mark, Barbara Lancomb, Phyllis
Walker, Judith Todman, Louise Hamilton.
Halfway through 1956, Judith graduated from Nursing and immediately
moved on to the midwifery course, which she completed during the following year.
Her friend bought a Vesper Scooter. Judith was fascinated and went out and
bought her own. They realised the freedom that the Vespers gave them to travel
and the idea of an adventure was formed. Having received her double certificate,
she returned home to work at Camperdown District Hospital in 1958. It was
during this return to her childhood home that she decided to go through with her
plans to travel to New Zealand, even though her original fellow travellers had dropped
out. With replacement travelling companions found, Judith saved earnestly and after four months back in
Camperdown was ready to launch off on her new adventure.
Judith and her
two new girlfriends rode their Vesper motorbikes from Melbourne to Sydney and
caught a ship to New Zealand, taking their bikes with them. In between earning money as a lab technician,
Judith and her friends toured around New Zealand for eight months. They arrived
in New Zealand on January 28th 1959 with 390 other passengers on the
SS Monawarri. Much had happened in
the 4-day journey across the Tasman. Judith had met John, eleven years her
senior, an engineer and crew member. He had been so charming and attentive, so
unlike the boys back home, debonair in his uniform.
Photographer
Unknown, Judith and friend travel via Vespers from to Sydney via New South Wales,
1857, Australia Sandra Williamson’s private photograph collection [T337]
[Judith of the right]
After returning from New Zealand Judith got a position
at the Freemason’s Hospital, where she worked for six months, living in a flat
near the hospital. But by June 1959 she was feeling restless again. There
hadn’t been the camaraderie that she experienced during her training and being
back in a uniform on the bottom rung again wasn’t much fun.
Unhappy at work Judith dreamt of alternative
futures: of working on the snowfields, getting a job as an air hostess or maybe
even running away with John and starting a new life. She returned briefly to Camperdown to attend her
brother’s wedding. He was marrying one of her nursing girlfriends she had
introduced him to. This was her third stint as a bridesmaid in Camperdown as more
of her friends were settling down and getting married, staying and living in
the place where they had grown up, but Judith realized she was not part of this world anymore.
On 23 July 1959 Judith finished up at the
Freemason’s and used all her savings to buy a caravan and together she and John
took off on their new adventure to look for work and a place to live.
They drove
to the Grampians and lived in a caravan park. John managed to get some casual
jobs close by in Stawell as a mechanic and some contract work in Mount Gambier. Finally, he managed to secure a permanent position
working for Frost Engineering in Hamilton, with a house as part of the employment
contract.
Judith also
managed to secure a position at the local Hamilton Hospital, however the job wasn’t
the right fit for her and it didn’t work out. She then began working for a
local photographer performing administrative support.
Photographer unknown, Judith Todman & John Williamson, 1959, Stawell, Victoria, Australia[T373]
John
continued to look for better-paying work with a good house attached. Then, all
of a sudden in the middle of 1960, he got an offer to work in Benalla and so
they were on the move again.
Inspiration
This post was written in response to the writing prompt at Back to the 1950s for more detail - see Elizabeth Swanay O'Neal, "The Genealogy Blog Party: Back to the 1950s," Heart of the Family™ (https://www.thefamilyheart.com/genealogy-blog-party-1950s/ : accessed April 28, 2022).
The story told here is but a partial telling of a much larger story as remembered by Judith herself and understood by her daughter Sandra and is based on continuing conversations that began a long time ago.
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[i] 1950
'HIGH SCHOOL SCHOLARSHIP AND EXAMINATION RESULTS', Camperdown Chronicle (Vic. :
1877 - 1954), 10 March, p. 4. , viewed 28 Apr 2022,
http://nla.gov.au/nla.news-article23573857
[ii] 1951
'SIXTEEN DEBUTANTES AT H.S. EX-STUDENTS' BALL', Camperdown Chronicle (Vic. :
1877 - 1954), 17 August, p. 1. , viewed 28 Apr 2022, http://nla.gov.au/nla.news-article28331337
[iii] 1951
'VICTORIAN DIARY Women lawyers have meeting', The Argus (Melbourne, Vic. : 1848
- 1957), 26 September, p. 9. , viewed 28 Apr 2022,
http://nla.gov.au/nla.news-article23082188
[iv] 1952
'PERSONAL', Camperdown Chronicle (Vic. : 1877 - 1954), 5 February, p. 2. ,
viewed 28 Apr 2022, http://nla.gov.au/nla.news-article24001922
[v] 1953 'PERSONAL', Camperdown Chronicle (Vic. : 1877 - 1954), 5 June, p. 4. , viewed 28 Apr 2022, http://nla.gov.au/nla.news-article25114579
